They sold you “entrepreneurship,” but it’s just more work that doesn’t fulfill you.
Scroll through social media and you’ll see it everywhere: the side hustle gospel. Drop shipping. Print-on-demand. Affiliate marketing. Online courses. Freelancing. Flipping furniture. Selling digital templates.
Everyone’s hustling. Everyone’s grinding. Everyone’s building their “empire.”
And they’re all miserable.
Because here’s what nobody tells you: most “side hustles” aren’t entrepreneurship. They’re just gig economy exploitation with better branding.
You’re not building a business. You’re buying yourself a second job. One that pays worse, offers no benefits, and consumes every spare moment you have.
And the system loves it. Because exhausted people don’t have time to question why one job isn’t enough.
Side Hustle Culture Is the New Conformity
There was a time when having a steady job meant you’d “made it.” You worked 40 hours, got your paycheck, had your weekends. The American Dream.
Then wages stagnated. Costs skyrocketed. Benefits eroded. And suddenly, one job wasn’t enough.
But instead of asking why one job isn’t enough—why corporations can post record profits while their workers need food stamps—we got told to hustle.
“Start a side hustle!”
“Monetize your passion!”
“Build multiple income streams!”
And just like that, the failure of the system became reframed as a personal opportunity.
Can’t afford rent? Side hustle.
Drowning in student debt? Side hustle.
No healthcare? Side hustle.
Want to retire someday? Side hustle.
The problem isn’t that you’re not working hard enough. It’s that the system is broken. But side hustle culture says: don’t fix the system, just work more.
And we bought it. We turned survival into aspiration. We made exhaustion a status symbol. We started wearing our lack of free time like a badge of honor.
“I’m up at 5 AM working on my side hustle.”
“I haven’t had a day off in six months.”
“Sleep is for people without ambition.”
This isn’t entrepreneurship. It’s Stockholm syndrome with a motivational Instagram aesthetic.
The Difference Between Creating for Money vs. Creating for Expression
I know this pattern intimately because I lived it.
I thought I wanted to start a business. Actually, let me be more honest: I thought I wanted to start a business because I wanted money. And then the goal shifted slightly—I wanted a business to buy my time back from the 9-5 trap.
Both of those motivations are rooted in scarcity. Both are reactions to a broken system rather than expressions of who I actually am.
I tried credit repair. I started a blog about credit concepts to showcase my knowledge. It made sense. There was a market. I could help people. I could make money.
But I couldn’t sustain it. Because I didn’t actually believe in it. I was creating for money, not for expression. And creation without authentic expression feels like… just another job.
Here’s what I’ve learned: there’s a fundamental difference between creating to escape a system and creating because something needs to exist in the world.
When you’re creating for money, every decision is calculated. What will sell? What’s trending? What can I automate? What’s the fastest path to revenue? You’re optimizing for profit, which means you’re optimizing for what other people want—or what you think they want—instead of what’s true for you.
When you’re creating for expression, the questions change. What needs to be said? What needs to exist? What’s trying to come through me? The creation itself is the point, not the monetization.
One is extractive. The other is generative.
One depletes you. The other fills you up.
One is another job. The other is an act of being alive.
Why “Passive Income” Is a Lie That Keeps You Grinding
Let’s talk about the holy grail of side hustle culture: passive income.
Build it once, earn forever. Make money while you sleep. Escape the time-for-money trap.
It sounds perfect. And it’s mostly bullshit.
First, there’s almost nothing truly passive about “passive income.” That online course? You have to market it constantly. Those rental properties? Maintenance, tenant issues, market fluctuations. That affiliate marketing? Algorithm changes, platform policy updates, endless content creation.
You’re not escaping work. You’re just trading one form of labor for another. And often, the new labor is more precarious, more isolating, and more dependent on systems you don’t control (hello, platform algorithm changes).
Second, the passive income narrative keeps you grinding. It promises freedom later if you just work harder now. Sound familiar? It’s the same lie corporate jobs tell you: sacrifice now, freedom later. Except “later” never comes because there’s always another income stream to build, another optimization to make, another market to tap.
You’re still on the hamster wheel. It’s just a different wheel.
The real question isn’t “how do I make passive income?” It’s “why do I need multiple income streams just to survive?” And “what would I create if money wasn’t the primary driver?”
My Journey: From Money to Expression
When I started, I wanted a business to make money. Then it shifted to wanting a business to earn my time back. Both were about escaping something rather than creating something.
Now? I’m building a media hub at keys2elevate.com. I’m working on creating stories in different formats—animation, books, zines. I’m building a social marketplace for artists, revolutionaries, and spiritual people where their art can speak for itself. I’m designing a mobile game that challenges the idea that games should promote competition instead of collaboration.
None of this is optimized for maximum profit. Some of it might never be profitable in traditional terms. But it’s what wants to be created. It’s expression, not extraction.
And here’s the paradox: the moment I stopped creating for money, the work became sustainable. Not because it’s making me rich, but because I actually want to do it. I’m not grinding. I’m not hustling. I’m creating because the alternative—not creating—feels like suffocation.
That’s the difference. A side hustle drains you because it’s still just a job in disguise. True creation energizes you because it’s an expression of who you are.
True Autonomy Means Building What Lights You Up
Here’s what they don’t tell you about entrepreneurship: the point isn’t to make money. The point is autonomy.
Not financial autonomy—though that can be a byproduct. But creative autonomy. The freedom to build what you believe should exist, regardless of market demand. The freedom to express what’s inside you without asking permission or optimizing for engagement.
True autonomy means building what lights you up, even if it never goes viral, even if it never makes you rich, even if no one understands it at first.
It means rejecting the logic of scarcity that says everything must be monetized, everything must be scalable, everything must be optimized.
It means creating because you’re alive and creation is what living things do.
Most side hustles aren’t about autonomy. They’re about survival. They’re about trying to patch the holes in a sinking ship instead of questioning why the ship is sinking in the first place.
Real creation asks: what would I build if I wasn’t afraid? What would I make if I didn’t need it to pay my rent? What wants to come into existence through me?
Those questions lead somewhere entirely different than “what can I sell?”
What Creation Actually Looks Like
Creation is messy. It’s slow. It doesn’t scale neatly. It doesn’t always make sense.
Creation is writing because you have something to say, not because you need to hit a content quota.
Creation is building something beautiful because beauty matters, not because it will convert to sales.
Creation is experimenting, failing, pivoting, not because you’re optimizing for product-market fit, but because you’re discovering what wants to emerge.
Creation is collaborative, not competitive. It’s abundant, not scarce. It’s generative, not extractive.
And most importantly: creation serves something bigger than yourself.
When I think about my media company, I’m not thinking about how to maximize revenue. I’m thinking about artists who need platforms that don’t exploit them. I’m thinking about stories that challenge systems instead of reinforcing them. I’m thinking about games that teach collaboration instead of domination.
It’s bigger than me. Which is exactly why it will work—not in the “make me a millionaire” sense, but in the “this needs to exist” sense.
That’s what separates creation from side hustles. Side hustles serve you (barely). Creation serves the world.
The Challenge
If you have a side hustle, ask yourself: Am I building this because I have to, or because I want to?
Am I creating for money, or for expression?
Am I optimizing for profit, or for purpose?
If the honest answer is “I have to” and “for money,” you’re not an entrepreneur. You’re an employee of your own survival. And that’s not your fault—the system is designed this way.
But if you want something different, you have to make a different choice.
Stop optimizing for what sells. Start building what matters.
Stop asking “what can I monetize?” Start asking “what needs to exist?”
Stop hustling. Start creating.
Because the world doesn’t need another dropshipping store or another online course teaching people to start online courses.
The world needs you. Your perspective. Your voice. Your weird, unoptimized, unprofitable, necessary creation.
Build that instead.
Even if it scares you. Especially if it scares you.
That’s not a side hustle. That’s living.
About SKIP x THONIC
I'm a builder at heart, but what I build is just a means to an end. As a Product-Focused Engineer, my true work is using technology; my tools of choice being TypeScript and the modern frontend ecosystem, to solve human problems. I'm here to create products that help people feel freer, more creative, and more connected. This mission fuels my persistent problem-solving in remote, collaborative environments and shapes everything I write about and build.

